How To Live A Recovery Lifestyle – Tips From A Peer Recovery Support Specialist

As a person living in recovery from Substance Use Disorder (SUD) for the past six years, I’ve developed some basic methods and tools that I use to maintain my recovery and reclaim my life. I work as a Peer Recovery Support Specialist at my community health department, and my job is one of the driving forces that helps me maintain my recovery. There is something so special about sharing your experiences to help someone else find the light in their darkness. In addition to my job, I practice self-awareness to keep myself on my toes, and I check in with myself about my emotions and the state of my mental health to ensure my sobriety.

Substance use disorder (SUD) is a challenging journey that impacts not just the body but also the mind and spirit. What I’ve learned is that living in recovery is not merely about abstaining from substances; it’s about rebuilding a balanced and healthy life. At the heart of this process is mental health and wellness. By prioritizing mental well-being, individuals in recovery can strengthen their resilience, address underlying emotional pain, and build a foundation for sustained sobriety.

Why Mental Health is Crucial for Sustained Recovery

Substance use often masks deeper issues such as trauma, anxiety, depression, or unresolved emotional pain. For me, I didn’t want to feel any of it. Without addressing these underlying challenges, the risk of relapse increases. Mental health and wellness practices provide tools to:

  1. Understand Emotional Triggers: Recognizing the emotions and situations that lead to cravings can empower individuals to respond constructively.
  2. Rebuild Self-Worth: Substance use can erode self-esteem. Mental health practices help individuals rediscover their value and purpose.
  3. Develop Coping Strategies: Healthy coping mechanisms reduce the reliance on substances to manage stress or discomfort.

Mental health is the cornerstone of a successful recovery lifestyle. It’s not just about avoiding substances—it’s about creating a life where you no longer feel the need to escape. By focusing on mental health, individuals can build a strong foundation for long-term sobriety and emotional well-being.

Mindfulness Techniques for Emotional Regulation and Stress Reduction

Mindfulness, or the ability to be self-aware, is an empowering practice. It can help you identify your emotions and stress levels and use the necessary tools to work through them. Deep breathing techniques are my go-to when I feel an anxiety attack coming on. I’m able to say to myself, “It’s okay. Calm down. This is just your anxiety, and it will pass.” I also practice making gratitude lists daily. It’s too easy to focus on the negatives and the have-nots. Making a gratitude list every day is a pleasant reminder of all the things I do have and value—things I didn’t have in addiction and thought I would never obtain.

Mindfulness is a powerful tool for recovery. By fostering awareness and presence, mindfulness helps individuals:

  • Reduce Stress: Practices like meditation, deep breathing, and body scans calm the mind and body, reducing the stress that often triggers cravings.
  • Enhance Emotional Regulation: Mindfulness helps individuals observe their emotions without judgment, allowing them to respond rather than react impulsively.
  • Cultivate Gratitude: Simple mindfulness exercises, such as journaling about positive experiences, shift focus from negativity to positivity, improving overall outlook.

Incorporating mindfulness into your daily routine can transform your recovery journey. Whether it’s through meditation, gratitude lists, or simply taking a few moments to breathe deeply, mindfulness can help you stay grounded and focused on your goals.

EMDR Therapy: A Powerful Tool for Trauma Healing in Recovery

I recently started my journey with EMDR therapy. It is something I had been putting off for fear of the discovery process. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy is particularly effective for individuals recovering from SUD who have experienced trauma. EMDR helps:

  • Process Traumatic Memories: By reprocessing distressing memories, individuals reduce their emotional intensity and impact.
  • Break Negative Thought Patterns: EMDR can help shift self-defeating beliefs, such as “I’ll never recover,” into more empowering narratives.
  • Strengthen Emotional Resilience: Over time, individuals build the capacity to face triggers without relapsing.

Trauma is often at the root of substance use disorder, and addressing it is essential for lasting recovery. EMDR therapy offers a structured, evidence-based approach to healing from trauma, making it a valuable tool for anyone on the path to sobriety.

The Benefits of Regular and Group Therapy for Sobriety

I thrive in group therapy. I go to group therapy once a week and appreciate the feedback from other members. I also enjoy the bonding that comes from sharing our stories. It’s so easy to learn from others when you’ve had similar experiences. Therapy provides a safe space for individuals to explore their thoughts and emotions, understand their behaviors, and develop healthier patterns. Both individual and group therapy play essential roles:

  • Individual Therapy: Personalized sessions allow for in-depth exploration of personal struggles, goals, and progress.
  • Group Therapy: In group settings, individuals find community and support. Sharing experiences fosters connection and reduces the isolation often associated with addiction.

Therapy is a cornerstone of recovery, offering both professional guidance and peer support. Whether you prefer one-on-one sessions or the camaraderie of a group, therapy can provide the tools and encouragement you need to stay on track.

The Importance of Mental Health Check-Ins in Recovery

Regular mental health check-ins—whether with a therapist, a trusted support group, or through self-reflection—are vital in maintaining progress. I practice mental health check-ins with myself regularly. Being able to identify how you are feeling in the current moment is so powerful. It can help you to accept where you are right now and where you want to be both emotionally and in life. These check-ins:

  • Identify Emerging Issues: Early detection of stressors or negative thought patterns allows for timely intervention.
  • Track Progress: Reflecting on how far one has come boosts motivation and confidence.
  • Reinforce Healthy Habits: Routine check-ins help solidify practices like mindfulness, gratitude, and self-care.

Mental health check-ins are a simple yet powerful way to stay connected to your recovery goals. By regularly assessing your emotional state, you can catch potential issues early and take proactive steps to address them.

Journaling for Reflection and Growth

Journaling can be difficult, but it is a great outlet. I don’t journal every day, but I try to journal when moments of joy, pride, sorrow, or uncertainty happen in my life. Journaling is a transformative tool in recovery. By writing regularly, individuals can:

  • Process Emotions: Journaling provides a safe outlet for exploring and understanding emotions.
  • Track Progress: Recording daily experiences and milestones highlights growth and areas needing improvement.
  • Enhance Clarity: Reflective writing helps organize thoughts, set goals, and build self-awareness.

Journaling doesn’t have to be a daily chore—it can be a flexible, personal practice that fits into your life. Whether you write a few sentences or several pages, journaling can help you process your emotions and track your progress in recovery.

The Importance of Eating Healthy and Regular Exercise

I struggle with this one. I was raised in a household where you ate your feelings. It has been one of the hardest habits to break in my life. My relationship with food is pretty unhealthy most of the time. However, when I do practice healthy eating habits, I notice how much better I feel and how much more energy I have. So, I continue to work diligently at improving my overall health with diet and exercise.

Physical health plays a crucial role in supporting mental health and recovery. Two key components are:

  • Eating Healthy: A balanced diet provides essential nutrients that boost brain function, stabilize mood, and improve energy levels. Consuming whole foods, such as fruits, vegetables, lean proteins, and whole grains, supports overall well-being and reduces the risk of emotional instability.
  • Regular Exercise: Physical activity releases endorphins, the body’s natural mood elevators. Exercise helps reduce stress, improve sleep, and enhance self-esteem. Activities like walking, yoga, or strength training can be tailored to individual fitness levels and preferences.

Taking care of your body is an essential part of recovery. By fueling yourself with nutritious food and staying active, you can support your mental and emotional well-being while building physical resilience.

Self-Care Techniques: Prioritizing Your Well-Being

Okay, guys, this one is SO important! Self-care. As a full-time Peer Recovery Support Specialist and single mom, it’s so difficult to find time for my self-care routine. Honestly, it requires a level of discipline to ensure that you actually make time for yourself throughout the busy week. Early in my recovery, my self-care was small. I treated myself to a manicure and pedicure once a month. As time went on and I rediscovered other things that I enjoy doing, my self-care got easier, and I realized it didn’t have to cost me any money. A walk with my headphones in and music playing, a kayaking trip on a quiet lake, or a bubble bath with some candles and a book—these are all simple ways I practice my self-care routine.

Self-care is essential for maintaining balance and well-being during recovery. By dedicating time to self-care, individuals can nurture their mental, emotional, and physical health. Some effective self-care techniques include:

  • Creating a Routine: Establishing a daily routine provides structure and stability, reducing feelings of chaos or overwhelm.
  • Setting Boundaries: Learning to say no and protecting personal time ensures that energy is preserved for meaningful activities and relationships.
  • Engaging in Hobbies: Pursuing interests and creative outlets, such as art, music, or gardening, fosters joy and self-expression.
  • Practicing Relaxation: Activities like taking a warm bath, reading a book, or enjoying nature help reduce stress and promote inner peace.

Self-care isn’t selfish—it’s necessary. By prioritizing your well-being, you can show up as your best self for both yourself and others.

Focusing on Balance in Your Life

Balance in your life is the ever-elusive goal for everyone. Early in my recovery process, when I was court-ordered to complete an Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP), they drilled the balance wheel into our heads. I hated that wheel! Because who can achieve balance in their lives? It seemed like an unattainable goal, even for someone not facing the barriers of addiction recovery. Here’s what I’ve learned: it may not be attainable. The purpose is to remain aware of it and check in on where you are. It’s simply a tool to see where you are focusing most of your energy and where you need to focus some more energy.

Achieving and maintaining balance is a cornerstone of successful recovery. Balance involves:

  • Work-Life Harmony: Avoid overloading on work or recovery activities while neglecting leisure or relationships.
  • Emotional Equilibrium: Strive to balance challenging emotions with positive experiences and coping tools.
  • Time Management: Allocate time for self-care, responsibilities, and relaxation to prevent burnout and enhance overall well-being.

Using the Balance Wheel of Life in Recovery

The Balance Wheel of Life is a visual tool designed to help individuals evaluate and improve different areas of their life, ensuring they are balanced and well-rounded. This tool is particularly effective in recovery as it encourages individuals to focus on various aspects of their lives rather than solely their recovery journey. The wheel typically includes categories such as:

  1. Physical Health: Fitness, diet, and overall well-being.
  2. Emotional Well-being: Mental health, emotional regulation, and mindfulness.
  3. Relationships: Family, friendships, and social connections.
  4. Career/Work: Job satisfaction, purpose, and professional growth.
  5. Spiritual Growth: Sense of purpose, spirituality, or connection with something greater.
  6. Finances: Stability, budgeting, and financial goals.
  7. Recreation/Fun: Leisure activities and hobbies.
  8. Personal Growth: Education, self-improvement, and skill development.

Steps to Use the Balance Wheel:

  • Self-Assessment: Rate each area on a scale of 1-10 based on satisfaction or fulfillment.
  • Set Goals: Focus on areas with lower scores and set achievable goals to improve them.
  • Monitor Progress: Regularly revisit the wheel to evaluate changes and ensure continued balance.

Building a Holistic Recovery Plan

I like outlines. I feel like when you have an outline to stick to, it makes the steps to reach your goals clear and attainable. Building a holistic recovery plan can help you stay on track and take back your life. You are not “winging” it—you are following an outline that you have created and personalized to your life and situation. I’m not saying that if you follow the plan, there will not be missteps, but at least you know how to regroup and start again if you are following your outline.

Mental health and wellness are most effective when integrated into a holistic recovery plan. This plan may include:

  1. Physical Health: Regular exercise and a nutritious diet support mental clarity and emotional stability.
  2. Social Support: Connecting with loved ones, mentors, and recovery groups strengthens emotional support networks.
  3. Spiritual Growth: Practices like yoga, meditation, or attending spiritual gatherings nurture a sense of purpose and connection.
  4. Self-Care and Balance: Prioritizing self-care and maintaining balance ensures sustained progress and resilience.
  5. Mindfulness and Journaling: Incorporating tools like mindfulness cards, affirmation cards, and journaling promotes ongoing self-reflection and positive growth.

Final Thoughts: Embracing a Recovery Lifestyle for Long-Term Sobriety

Recovery from substance use disorder is a journey of transformation, requiring commitment to mental health and wellness. By embracing practices like mindfulness, EMDR therapy, regular and group therapy, mental health check-ins, healthy eating, regular exercise, self-care techniques, and a focus on balance, individuals can heal deeply and build a life of stability and joy. Remember, recovery is not just about overcoming the past—it’s about creating a hopeful and fulfilling future.

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